Your Complete Guide to Dining in China 🥢 What To Do & What TO Avoid

Chinese Food || Essential Things to Know About Dining in China 🥢

Most people love Chinese food and it’s not hard to see why. But what’s it like Dining in China?

Wherever there’s a Chinese community in a city, there will also be several Chinese restaurants.

Biang Biang Mian - So good they named it twice
Biang Biang Mian – So good they named it twice

While the popularity of wontons and egg fried rice is undeniable, there’s also a new wave of restaurants in foreign countries creating fusion food, carefully blending Chinese flavours with a country’s traditional cuisine.

You might think that eating in a Chinese restaurant makes you an expert in Chinese cuisine, but if you take a trip to China, you’ll quickly discover the differences in tastes and dishes, even if you’re ordering the same thing.

A country’s cuisine tells us a lot about its culture and there’s arguably none richer or more diverse than that of the Chinese.

Dining in China || Dining Etiquette in China – Dos and Don’ts

Dining in China || Tastes

Dining in China || Food by Region

Dining in China || FAQs

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Dining in China || Etiquette

Every country has its own set of unwritten rules when it comes to dining.

China, being one of the oldest countries in the world, is a traditionalist.

Despite the modernity and westernization that you can see in its sprawling metropole, elders and young ones still follow their traditions.

1. Seating Protocol

So first things first when dining in China…

DO make sure to pay particular attention to your appearance if you’re a dinner guest in China and bring good wine or a small gift to demonstrate how deep your relationship is with your host.

DON’T be late. Being punctual is essential. You can either introduce yourself or allow the host to introduce you.

DO wait to be seated. In China, the host, the special guest, or the most senior (in age and position) should be seated first.

So if the most senior guests are not yet seated, you have to remain standing. It’s the same when eating.

You must wait until the seniors start eating before you do the same, even if your nose is twitching and your stomach grumbling from the delicious aromas of the good food on the table.

Sometimes, you’ll hear the most senior say “let’s eat” before you can begin.

Dining in China
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2. Rice Bowl

DO hold the bowl of rice with your left hand, with the thumb resting near the mouth of the bowl and the other fingers supporting the side and bottom of the bowl, and not your palm.

DON’T bend over your bowl, it’s impolite. Moreover, bending over while eating will compress your stomach and restrict your digestion.

DO hold chopsticks in your right hand (unless you’re left-handed). In a shared meal, rice is served individually in small bowls, while the vegetable and meat dishes are placed on serving bowls or plates in the middle of the table.

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3. Elegance

You might have seen several movies showing local restaurant scenes where diners talk loudly and slurp their food as quickly as possible. You might mistake this for showing a total lack of social rules when dining.

On the contrary, dining with Chinese people requires exhibition of proper table manners.

DO take food from the serving plates in front of you rather than from the middle of the table, or from plates that are far from you.

DON’T use your chopsticks to dig through the food. Usually serving plates are placed on a lazy Susan, so you just have to wait your turn. Always be considerate of others when dining in China.

Dining in China - Dinner with an LTL Homestay
Dinner with an LTL Homestay

DO use a side plate when removing inedible parts from ingredients, or bones from your mouth. You can use your chopsticks or your fingers.

DON’T use your tongue to wipe or remove food from around you mouth. Use napkins or tissues to wipe or remove food from your mouth instead.

DO respectfully accept food if an elder or the host adds rice to your bowl or places food on your plate. This means that they consider you a friend you so you should give thanks.  

4. Appreciation for Tea

Dining in China : Chinese Tea - So Good
Chinese Tea – So Good

A serving of tea is part of Chinese dining.

Tea is normally served as soon as you are seated, with a server pouring the tea for you.

Afterwards the teapot is left with you and you can serve yourself. Piece of cake!

DO show your appreciation for the server who’s pouring you tea by tapping your index and middle fingers two or three times on the table.

It’s also an indication that enough tea has been poured in your cup.

5. Chopsticks

When dining in China, it’s hard to avoid chopsticks!

DO put chopsticks on their holders when not in use. They are not to be waved around in the air, played with, or used to stab food.

DON’T stick your chopsticks vertically into a bowl of rice, this is deeply disrespectful and is associated with death. Instead, allow them to rest over the bowl.  

DO use a serving spoon or serving chopsticks to transfer food from the serving plate onto your own plate. If you’re not adept at using chopsticks, it is better to request a spoon and fork rather than risk dropping food onto the table.

DON’T use a table knife in Chinese restaurants as it’s considered a violent thing.

This is one of the reasons why Chinese dishes are very tender and ingredients are cut into small, bite-size pieces.

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A Beginners Guide on How to Eat and Order Chinese Hot Pot

Chinese hot pot (火锅 huǒguō) literally means fire-pot. It’s history goes back over 1,000 years. It is one of the most traditional and popular meals in China.

6. Drinking etiquette

If you’ve living in or have lived in China, you’ve almost certainly heard of the infamous baijiu (白酒). Whilst its name means ‘white alcohol’, it’s actually a colourless drink, that can have an alcohol level of up to 60%.

Whilst you might not remember too many of these rules after a shot of baijiu, it’s at least worth trying to learn some of them whilst you’re still sober! So…

Do finish your drink if you hear 干杯 gānbēi! This is usually translated to ‘cheers’, but it literally means ‘dry glass’, so you’ll be expected to down your drink!

Top tip: if you don’t want to pile on the pressure, you could instead say 我干了,你随意 (wǒ gàn le, nǐ suí yì), which means I’ll finish my drink, you drink as much as you like.

Don’t raise your glass higher than the glass of someone considered more senior than you, like a friend’s parent or your manager, this is considered disrespectful. Always aim your glass lower than theirs, this shows your humility.

Sometimes you might even find yoursel in a competition to have the lowest glass!

Don’t refuse a toast. This could cause someone to ‘lose face’ and would be seen as very disrespectful! If you don’t want to drink alcohol, it’s much better to toast with tea than to not drink at all.

Don’t toast to everybody, this is the role of the host and (you guessed it) it would be disrespectful take this away from them.

7. Paying the Bill

Figuring out who’s paying for dinner in any culture can be a social minefield! But don’t worry, we’re here to break it down in China for you.

DO offer, even argue a little, to pay the bill. This will show you’re grateful for the experience. BUT, make sure that you…

DON’T insist too much. Your host will almost certainly want to pay the bill and you should graciously accept, otherwise you may risk causing the host to lose face as it may look as though you believe your host cannot afford to pay the bill.

8. Chinese Food

Now we’ve come to the fun part – having a taste of authentic Chinese dishes!

China’s regions have different cooking styles, ingredients and specializations, which in itself is a pleasurable (and very filling) adventure.

Chinese dishes are already well seasoned, so no pepper or saltshakers are on the table. However, it is usual to find chilli paste, vinegar and soy sauce.  

Here are some things to remember.

All vegetables are cooked. Vegetables are never just boiled in water in China. Bones in meat and fish are not removed.

Some of the ingredients used in Chinese cuisine are rarely seen in cuisines from the West, such as lotus pods, tree fungi, yams and winter melons. Chinese cooks often use dried or fresh spices, such as chillis, garlic, pepper, mint, spring onion and ginger.

In a nutshell:

DO be adventerous!

DON’T pass up an opporunity to try something new!

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Dining in China || The Taste

Dining in China is so diverse!

Chinese food can be categorized based on the region where the cuisine originates. There are 8 famous ones in total which we’ve come to shortly.

The foods in Eastern China are predominantly light and sweet. Those from Central China have plenty of seasoning. They’re also quite spicy.

In the region of Western China where most are Chinese Muslims, you’ll find halal food, with lamb as the main ingredient.

In Northern China, the cuisine uses less vegetables and the cooking method is simple, although the food tends to be salty.

The 8 famous Chinese cuisines are:

Dining in China || Chinese Food by Region

Northern Chinese Cuisine

Beijing Duck - Traditional Food in China
Beijing Duck – Traditional Food in China

Northern China includes Inner Mongolia, Xi’an and Beijing. Cuisine here is a bit salty and doesn’t have too many vegetables, with simpler cooking preparation.

Beijing, being the capital, inherited the tradition of royal cuisine from the imperial kitchens.

Most famous of course is the Peking Roast Duck.

Shandong on the other hand is known for its seafood dishes. Chefs in Shandong are very particular when preparing creamy soups and clear broths.

Eastern Chinese Cuisine

This region is popular for its fish and seafood with light and sweet flavours.

This is the region where Anhui, Jiangsu, Zhejiang, Fujian and Guangdong belong.

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Chinese Food – Dim Sum : A Fans Favourite!

Most of you will be familiar with Cantonese cuisine, which has mild flavours, very fresh and natural ingredients and less spices.

Sweet sauces are part of Eastern Chinese cuisine. Cantonese cuisine is the most widely served type of Chinese cuisine worldwide.

The most popular is dim sum (steamed or fried dumplings). 

Fujian cuisine meanwhile is known for its sweet and sour taste. Less salt is used on ingredients coming from the mountains and the sea.

The area is famous for its beautiful culinary art, broths and soups, and the fine slicing techniques used for food presentation.

The cuisine in Taiwan is very much like Fujian cuisine.

Anhui cuisine employs native style of cooking, using wild ingredients harvested from the mountains.

Chefs here are experts at controlling cooking time and moderating heat when cooking.

Jiangsu cuisine includes ingredients coming from its freshwater and saltwater sources. Their various cooking methods and delicate and precise carving techniques add more than just fresh and natural flavours to their dishes.

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Western Chinese Cuisine

Western Chinese regions such as Gansu, Tibet and Xinjiang are known for their ethnic and halal food.

Tibetan cuisine is a mix of flavours and cooking styles borrowed for Sichuan, Indian and Nepalese cuisines.

Central Chinese Cuisine

This is the hottest and spiciest dishes in China are those served in Central China, particularly in Sichuan and the regions of Hunan and Chongqing.

Sichuan cuisine is known for its liberal use of chilli peppers, garlic and the unique spiciness of the local peppercorns.

The degree of numbing spiciness increases if you’re in Hunan, which is also known for its sour food, as pickles very popular here.

There are so many facets of China that are worth exploring, but one of the best ways to learn about its rich culture and language is through its food.

The West may only know about dim sum, chow mein, egg fried rice and Peking duck, but visit the country and you’ll discover an entirely different world, where almost everything is about food.

Thanks to Bernadine for this great read about Dining in China. Bernadine is a senior writer for Day Translations, Inc. She brings with her a wealth of experience earned from her extensive travels abroad.

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Dining in China || FAQs

What are China’s 8 famous cuisines?

China’s 8 Great Cuisines – 八大菜系 ba da caixi
Shandong Cuisine 山东菜

Sichuan Cuisine 四川菜

Cantonese Cuisine 粤菜

Fujian Cuisine 福建菜

Anhui Cuisine 安徽菜

Zhejiang Cuisine 浙江菜

Jiangsu Cuisine 江苏菜

Hunan Cuisine 湖南菜

Do I have to use chopsticks in China?

In many restaurants yes, but every big brand or western restaurant will have both options. The more local you go, the less chance there is of seeing a knife and fork.

Is Chinese food spicy?

It really depends on the region. Central China has the spiciest food but the food in southern regions like Guangdong and Hong Kong is generally much less spicy.

Is there western food in China?

Absolutely yes. In the bigger cities there are worldwide cuisines at your fingertips from French bakeries to Italian Pizza specialists and American Steakhouses.

Is food expensive in China?

Again this depends how local you go and where you are based. Western brands in Beijing and Shanghai would be more expensive but generally you can eat out super cheap in China if you are willing to stick to Asian cuisine.

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