I Love You In Chinese 💕 37 Phrases to Learn about Love

How do you say I Love You in Chinese? 

我爱你 – Wǒ ài nǐ

• 我 – I, Me
• 爱 – to love
• 你 – you

我爱你 (Wǒ ài nǐ) is one of the most searched Chinese phrases on Google, and for good reason!

Rather than just giving you the translation, we are going one step further and to create a guide with some excellent alternatives, giving you the perfect back catalogue to not just express your love in Chinese, but much more!

I Love You in Chinese || How do you say I Love You in Chinese?

I Love You in Chinese || How do you say I Like You in Chinese?

I Love You in Chinese || How do you say Beautiful Girl in Chinese?

I Love You in Chinese || How do you say Handsome Man in Chinese?

I Love You in Chinese || Other Ways of Expressing Liking and Love in Chinese

I Love You in Chinese || What does 520 in Chinese mean?

I Love You in Chinese || How to Break Up with Someone in Chinese?

I Love You in Chinese || How do you say Will You Marry Me in Chinese?

I Love You in Chinese || How do you talk about the Friendzone in Chinese?

I Love You in Chinese || FAQs

Before we start, here’s a brilliant insight into how NOT to chat someone up in Chinese, and the top tip for winning that special someone. Thanks to our wonderful friend Keren at Unconventional Chinese for the video…

How do you say I Love You in Chinese?

We already know this, but just to make sure…!

我爱你 – Wǒ ài nǐ

The direct translation matches the English word for word, which is not always the case between Chinese and English.

The only difference is the character for love. Traditional 愛 keeps 心 (xīn, heart) in the middle, while Simplified 爱 drops it, so our teachers like to joke that Simplified love has no heart! Both versions sound exactly the same.

TIP💡 It sounds roughly like “waw eye nee”. 我 is a third tone, but before the fourth tone of 爱 it becomes a short, low dip rather than a full dip and rise, so keep it relaxed.

It is worth noting that although the word love is banded around in English a lot, in China this might not be the case.

In English we have a habit of telling our parents we love them, our friends we love them, our dog we love them, even our pizza we love it!

Not in Chinese – love is a strong word to use so only say it if you really mean it. You tell a Chinese person you love them, there’s no going back!

How do you say I Like You in Chinese?

我喜欢你 – Wǒ xǐhuān nǐ

Again, the translation is the literal from English with 喜欢 representing to like something/someone.

• 我喜欢他 – I like him
• 我喜欢她 – I like her
  • Note that the pinyin for both him and her is the same – Wǒ xǐhuān tā. Easy to remember and no embarrassing moments like non-native English speakers sometimes have with him and her!
• 我喜欢她的眼睛 – I like her eyes
• 我喜欢她的性格 – I like her personality

Plenty of uses for 喜欢 (xǐhuān). Remember, as love is not so widely used in Chinese, it might be best to start with using like instead of love.

Don’t believe us…

Check out our guide to dating in China.

How do you say Beautiful Girl in Chinese?

美女 – Měi nǚ

美女 (Měi nǚ) is one you’ll hear quite a lot. Situations like browsing the markets looking for a bargain are a prime example.

In English, the equivalent might be calling someone darling/love/honey etc. You hear them, you respond to them, but it’s just what we are used to.

It’s always nice to be called a beautiful girl because that’s what the translation is… but it is generic and said to many people!

How do you say Handsome Man in Chinese?

帅哥 – Shuài gē

Like 美女, 帅哥 (Shuài gē) is widely used, but also still a compliment.

The literal meaning is Handsome Brother (哥哥 meaning older brother).

It is used to state Handsome Man or Cute Boy.

So, remember, as nice as it is to receive these compliments, there’s probably a lot of other people who have heard the same!

Other Ways of Expressing Liking and Love in Chinese

Of course sometimes you need to go beyond the Love and Like and vary it up a bit, so why not learn these to add a bit of variation to your armour.

How do you say I’m Interested In You in Chinese?

We use the 对 here to confirm the relationship between two things, in this case 我 and 你 (me and you).

After this the 感兴趣 simply translates to interested in and can be used for other things like:

• 我对足球感兴趣
  • I’m interested in football
• 我儿子对学外语很感兴趣
  • My son is really interested in learning foreign languages

How do you say I Really Like You in Chinese?

If you are somewhere in between liking someone a bit, and dropping the L bomb, you might want to say you really like someone. It’s nice and simple.

We take what we learnt earlier and just add 非常 which means very/extremely/really. 非常好 meaning very good, 非常有意思 meaning very interesting.

How do you say You Mean So Much to Me in Chinese?

No one will ever tire of hearing a sentence like this after all!

Notice we’ve used the 对 grammar structure again to show the relationship between two things (you and your partner once again).

重要 is a useful word to learn and means important.

How do you say I Love You Too in Chinese?

我也爱你 (Wǒ yě ài nǐ) is a very simple one, with just one addition from what we’ve already learnt.

也 means also so the translation is quite simple – I also love you.

Similarly 我也喜欢你 means I also like you/I like you too.

How do you say I’m Happy With You in Chinese?

Cranking it up a notch here, but it’s very manageable once you break it down and practice your Chinese pronunciation.

The sentence starts “with you” – 跟你

在一起 meaning “together“

的时候 meaning “when“

好开心 meaning “so happy“

The main grammatical thing to note is that when in Chinese (when used as a statement, and not a question), does not appear at the start of the sentence.

In a question, when appears at the start of the sentence as 什么时候, but in a statement, as above, 的时候 appears later in the sentence. Sounds confusing, but after a few examples you get used to it.

This is particularly awkward for English native speakers as the concept of using when later in a sentence is unheard of.

How do you say You’ve Stolen My Heart in Chinese?

Getting into super smooth talking territory now! If this is your style, you’ll love our cheesy Chinese chat-up lines.

The translation is very simple because it matches the English!

• 你 – You
• 偷走了 – Stole
• 我的心 – My Heart

What does 520 in Chinese mean?

Confused? Let us explain

Chinese culture is incredibly interesting in many ways. The obsession with smart phones, although a worldwide thing, is particularly strong in China.

…and just to prove to you this obsession exists, here are some examples of “number slang” (strings of numbers whose Chinese pronunciation sounds like a phrase), because typing “I Love You” is too much effort anyway.

In fact, the diagnosis for this obsession is so strong, that the Chinese themselves have a name for this group of smart phone addicts which is a good one to teach you:

低头族 Dītóu zú

Now you plug that into Google Translate and this is what you’ll get.

Doesn’t really shed much light does it. Let’s try one character at a time:

• 低 – Low/Hang down
• 头 – Head
• 族 – Clan/Race

Ok, makes a bit more sense now! It literally means the head bowing gang, a nickname for smartphone addicts that has been in everyday use for well over a decade. Look around any Beijing or Shanghai subway carriage and you’ll see why!

Why are we telling you this? 

We tell you this because these terms below are all used via message in place of words (via WeChat/Text/Whatsapp/Online etc).

They have been coined by Chinese and taken off, very much like when LOL, LMAO and ROFL came to prominence years ago (feeling old yet)!

Let’s discover some examples

• 520 because wǔ èr líng sounds like wǒ ài nǐ
  • Meaning – I love you 我爱你
• 530 because wǔ sān líng sounds like wǒ xiǎng nǐ
  • Meaning – I miss you 我想你
• 1314 because yī sān yī sì sounds like yī shēng yī shì
  • Meaning – Forever 一生一世
  • EXTRA TIP: Combine it with 520 to make 5201314, I love you forever. Smart bunch aren’t they! When you want to say it out loud rather than type it, use the full sentence in the table just below this list.
• 770 because qī qī líng sounds like qīn qīn nǐ
  • Meaning – Kiss You 亲亲你
• 880 because bā bā líng sounds like bào bào nǐ
  • Meaning – Hug you 抱抱你

永远 goes before the verb 爱, in the same spot as 也 in 我也爱你 (I love you too).

What does 67 slang mean in Chinese?

You might have seen “67” (six seven) all over social media lately. That one is an English-language internet meme with no fixed meaning, and it isn’t part of Chinese number slang like 520 or 1314.

TIP💡 Read out in Chinese, 67 is just liù qī, which doesn’t sound like a romantic phrase. If you want to send love by numbers, stick with 520 (I love you) or 5201314 (I love you forever).

So remember, when feeling that typing I love you forever is too much effort, you can express it via numbers!

Discover the luckiest numbers in China here.

How to Break Up with Someone in Chinese?

Love isn’t all a bed of roses after all.

There may well be a day where you have to roll out the break up lines in Chinese – let’s hope for your sake you don’t need to use these!

First and foremost the key vocab to get in your head if you are ready to pull the plug is:

分手 Fēnshǒu – To break up/part ways

So putting that into a sentence, we’d say:

But what if you want to go into a bit more detail about why you are breaking up?

Here’s our guide…

How do you say We Need To Talk in Chinese?

Ah the writing is on the wall when you hear this one.

Four words no one wants to ever hear!

The grammar is pretty simple and either of the above suffices. The second example is probably the more simplistic of the two because the direct translation is:

We – Need – Talk

The first example holds the same meaning and if you drop either of these out, your partner’s heart will sink no slower!

Approach with caution!

How do you say It’s Not You It’s Me in Chinese?

It always feels a bit of a cop-out this one doesn’t it. As if there’s nothing more you could’ve done. It just wasn’t meant to be.

Again, it’s a simple translation this one, with no complicated grammar structures or things to note.

是我 simply means it’s me. Adding the 不 in front of this makes it a negative. Job done.

How do you say Let’s Just Be Friends in Chinese?

A kick in the proverbials, they want you to hang around, but not for reasons you’d hoped. Never easy and almost certainly it never ends well.

One little bit of grammar to pick up here is the 吧 which you might see and hear quite often.

吧 means OK, but not as a question, as a statement. So in effect you are saying, let’s just be friends, OK. No rhetorical question, just a simple, “that’s the situation, deal with it”.

Harsh!

How do you say I think we need a break in Chinese

Similar to that famous line that Ross drops on Friends. WE WERE ON A BREAK!

Again the translation is literal from English so it’s nice and easy to remember when you have the vocab nailed!

• 认为 – Believe/Think
• 我们 – We
• 需要 – Need
• 冷静 – Calm/Cool

How do you say I need my space in Chinese

A bit too full on? Need your partner to back off a bit, this is the perfect line for that awkward situation.

Key words to pick up here are:

• 空间 – Space
• 自己 – Yourself

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How do you say Will You Marry Me in Chinese?

Not breaking up? Then the chances are you’ll be tying the knot one day in the future!

How do you propose in Chinese though?

愿意 meaning wish/want/like and 嫁 meaning to marry (a woman). This statement assumes it’s the male proposing!

If the female decides to make the bold move then she would say：

The 娶 means to take a wife.

Of course these aren’t the only ways to drop the bomb, you would also suffice using:

A more presumptuous way would be to use:

This might be used if perhaps you both know it’s coming, with zero element of surprise and you know the chance of rejection is very slim to nothing!

How do you talk about the Friendzone in Chinese?

When you like the person who is laying bare his heart (表白 Biǎobái) to you it’s wonderful, but what to do when this happens and you’re just not feeling it?

The answer is in the awkward purgatory of the FRIENDZONE.

Explaining to the other person you don’t see him/her in a romantic context, ideally without hurting their feelings any more than necessary is not easy.

It’s already a real challenge when speaking your mother tongue, so how to friendzone someone in Chinese?

The literal translation for the term “Friendzone” in Chinese is:

• 朋友区 (朋友 Péngyǒu = friend 区 qū = area).

Therefore, if you want to say “I’ve been friendzoned ” you’d say:

• 我被放到了朋友区里面 (wǒ bèi fàng dàole péngyǒu qū lǐmiàn)

Or “I’m stuck in the Friend zone” you’d say:

• 我卡在朋友区 (wǒ kǎ zài péngyǒu qū).

Then, you might also need to say you want to get out of the friend-zone:

• 我要逃脱朋友区 (wǒ yào táotuō péngyǒu qū)

Or you want to escape the friend-zone:

• 我要走出朋友区 (wǒ yào zǒuchū péngyǒu qū).

Young people in cities like Beijing and Shanghai will understand “friendzone” (朋友区), but there’s another expression for this situation that you’ll hear just as often:

• 发好人卡 (Fā hǎorén kǎ). Literally – to give someone the “nice-person card”

As you can easily imagine it came from the typical scenario of someone turning down an admirer by saying:

• 你是个好人，我们还是当朋友吧！
  Nǐ shìgè hǎorén, wǒmen háishì dāng péngyǒu ba! 
  You are a nice guy, but …we’d better remain friends”.

I Love You In Chinese – Conclusion

So there you have it: I Love You in Chinese and so much more! Here’s your roundup to save for later:

… and just to finally round it all off, another guide on what NOT to do when chatting up.

Lesson here, don’t trust your friends!

And last but certainly not least, why not take your language skills to a whole new level and find out how to express your love and affection in Vietnamese, Spanish, Korean and Japanese as well!

Love in China || FAQs

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