Chinese Chat Up Lines and What NOT To Do! // Plus Audio Examples 🔊

Ready to discover THE BEST Chinese Chat Up Lines? It’s time to rate your Chinese rizz and see how many of these chat-up lines you know.

Chinese pick-up lines are a great way to learn a language and win someone over at the same time!

Have you ever dated a Chinese speaker? Do YOU want some of the best Chinese Chat Up Lines?

Then you’re in the right place!

Dating a local Chinese person whilst in China is very different to what you may be used to if you come from a Western country.

That said… pick-up lines are a universal language!

The two-part blog is written by an expat who studies at LTL and currently lives in Beijing, Zoe. She tells of the good, bad and downright ugly when it comes to dating Chinese guys in China!

Chinese Chat Up Lines || Our Top 8

Chinese Chat Up Lines || Finding Love in China

Chinese Chat Up Lines || How NOT to Ask Someone Out

Chinese Chat Up Lines || FAQs

Chinese Pick-Up Lines || Magnificent 8

Let’s cut to the chase:

Have you been living in China for a while and in desperate need of finding someone to cuddle up to at night?

Maybe you’re a student studying Chinese in China who wants a local girlfriend to practice your Chinese with?

Or maybe you just a HUGE crush on a Chinese girl or guy in your home town and want to show off with a cheeky Chinese chat-up line.

Either way, this is the blog post for you. Here are LTL’s top 8 Chinese chat-up lines.

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1. Do you believe in love at first sight? Or should I walk past you again?

Playful AND includes a Chengyu*? What’s not to love about this pick up line?

*The Chengyu here is 一见钟情 (yījiànzhōngqíng), which means love at first sight.

2. Apart from being beautiful, what do you do for a living?

For when you spot that 美女 (měinǚ; beautiful girl) and you want to let her know she’s more than just a pretty face.

3. Did it hurt when you fell out of heaven?

An English classic that also works in Chinese. Use this on those ethereal people in your life!

4. I seem to have lost my phone number, can you give me yours?

Whilst you’re more likely to add someone’s WeChat these days, this one is still a fun one liner to try out on someone!

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5. I have had a really bad day and it always makes me feel better to see a pretty girl smile. So…would you smile for me?

Cheesy or romantic? That’s for you to decide…

6. There must be something wrong with my eyes, I can’t take them off you.

Let that cutie know they’ve been in your sights all night with this line!

7. I’m a frog but if you kiss me I’ll turn into a prince

Welcome to your very own fairytale!

8. Kissing is a language of love, so how about a conversation?

Who needs to learn Chinese when you’re fluent in 💖 love 💖?

Finding Love in China || What’s the Story?

We also want to give you an insight into what it’s actually like finding love in China…

Today it is quite difficult for the younger Chinese generations to find love due to their daily pressures of work and study which are very important in their life.

Finding time to go dating in China is a challenge, especially with pressure from parents and friends.

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Pressures of Dating and Finding Love in China

First of all, it is important to note that most young Chinese people are put under a great amount of pressure to succeed, even from childhood.

Due to the one-child policy, introduced in 1978 in order to control the country’s growing population, many Chinese parents can’t have another child.

This only child is then considered as the future of the family.

This child is expected to obtain a high-paying job and take care of their parents after they retire, offering them a good life.

So many children of this Chinese generation study and work very hard not to disappoint their parents.

The Chinese schooling system is very expensive with some students having to get part time work while trying to achieve these high grades.

The most stressful part of Chinese schooling is the GaoKao which is the entrance exam for Chinese universities.

In this ultra-competitive society students are already worried for their future, often added pressures from family and school make everything even more daunting.

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Changing Attitudes Towards Finding the One

Beside the pressures of school and the time spent studying or working, more and more women would like to have a career before starting a family.

This phenomenon is still a new concept, hence a large majority of Chinese society doesn’t understand it and think a woman should prefer marriage over work.

As a consequence, being a single 27-year-old woman is considered a Taboo in Chinese society and the pressure to marry and have a family is very strong.

Due to the pressure of long working hours in Chinese society, people often don’t have time to meet potential partners, hence it is difficult to find someone to love when you are over thirty.

Chinese people often look for more of a life partner rather than a lover.

Parents can become really involved in their child’s love life, as can be seen with the now famous, singles markets.

These markets consist of a big meeting of parents holding posters containing all the important information about their child : age, height, salary, phone number (but often no pictures) with the hope to find the perfect match.

On the contrary, young women will also have many difficulties to find love as they are notoriously picky about their future husband.

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This can be seen in the growing success of TV shows dedicated to single people, for example, the TV show named Fei Cheng Wu Rao (‘If You Are The One‘ in English), in which 24 women judge men who introduce themselves one by one.

A young woman became a viral sensation due to her shocking statement

“I’d rather cry on a BMW than laugh on your bike.”

More and more people are too busy with their work, resulting in difficulties finding love and so have now turned to signing up to online dating websites. This had led to this becoming a fast-growing industry in China!

What do you think about finding love in China? Should we work less in order to find go dating? Can work and love be compatible? Is love the most important thing of all?

If you have any Chinese chat-up lines of your own, we’d love to hear them!

Drop us a comment below or take a look at some of our other blog posts regarding love and dating in China!

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How NOT to Ask Someone Out in China

So you hopefully saw the video above showing you five ways to NOT chat someone up in China, but we’ve got another nugget for you here!

This video is thanks to two of our friends Zoe and Ben.

Ben wants to ask out the pretty Chinese lady and asks Zoe for some help with his Chinese.

It’s safe to say she wasn’t willing to play ball, but rather than reject his request, she tries something even more cunning…

We hope you enjoyed our insight into the world of Chinese chat up lines.

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Good luck out there!

Pick Up Lines in Chinese || FAQs